Make clearer the distinction between "storage-mode" and "delta-mode" usage of *Settings objects

- Storage mode: for use in `self._settings`. All fields should be specified, i.e. should not be `NOT_GIVEN`.
- Delta mode: for use in `*UpdateSettingsFrame`.

In service of this, this commit:
- Adds a runtime check that all fields are specified in storage mode
- Updates all services to specify all fields in stored settings
- Updates all services to no longer check for `is_given` in stored settings (not necessary anymore)
- Updates relevant docstrings
- Renames `update` to `delta` in `*UpdateSettingsFrame`
- Updates community integrations guide

examples/foundational/55h-update-settings-speechmatics-stt.py

@@ -110,13 +110,13 @@ async def run_bot(transport: BaseTransport, runner_args: RunnerArguments):
         await asyncio.sleep(10)
         logger.info("Updating Speechmatics STT settings: language=es")
         await task.queue_frame(
-            STTUpdateSettingsFrame(update=SpeechmaticsSTTSettings(language=Language.ES))
+            STTUpdateSettingsFrame(delta=SpeechmaticsSTTSettings(language=Language.ES))
         )
 
         await asyncio.sleep(10)
         logger.info("Updating Speechmatics STT settings: focus_speakers=['S1']")
         await task.queue_frame(
-            STTUpdateSettingsFrame(update=SpeechmaticsSTTSettings(focus_speakers=["S1"]))
+            STTUpdateSettingsFrame(delta=SpeechmaticsSTTSettings(focus_speakers=["S1"]))
         )
 
         await asyncio.sleep(10)
@@ -125,7 +125,7 @@ async def run_bot(transport: BaseTransport, runner_args: RunnerArguments):
         )
         await task.queue_frame(
             STTUpdateSettingsFrame(
-                update=SpeechmaticsSTTSettings(
+                delta=SpeechmaticsSTTSettings(
                     speaker_active_format="<SPEAKER_{speaker_id}>{text}</SPEAKER_{speaker_id}>"
                 )
             )